X-Rated Language at Story Slams

X-Rated Language at Slams
X-Rated Language at Slams

Disclaimer: Perhaps “R-Rated” would be a more appropriate description than “X-Rated”…but I had a different topic idea for “R” (Random Order), and needed one for “X”…so here we are.

This is one definite difference between story slams and traditional storytelling (at least at the public slams I’ve been to): the people up on stage seem to feel very free to use profanity and swearing in their stories.

I have been to 7 story slams. Two were at storytelling conferences (the 2014 National Storytelling Conference in Phoenix, and last weekend’s Northlands Storytelling Confabulation in Lake Geneva, WI); and the other 5 were what I sometimes call “public story slams” (to differentiate them from slams held at storytelling conferences), where tickets are bought by anybody from the public, and the people telling stories on stage may or may not have encountered the art of oral storytelling before. There is a different character to the public slams as contrasted with the conference slams (and with most – not all, but most – traditional storytelling).

And one expression of that different character is the common use of profanity.

In all 5 of the public story slams I have attended, swearing as part of one or more stories was the case. And what I observed ran the gamut:

  1. Some stories contained no profanity.
  2. Some had a little bit that just seemed an authentic expression by the teller for that phrase and moment of the story.
  3. Some used more profanity, and more pointedly, highlighting it in the context of the story for emotional effect, sometimes comic.
  4. Some salted it fairly liberally throughout.
  5. I can think of at least 3 times where the person on stage laced large amounts of lots of kinds of profanity and swearing throughout the story, piling it on and spewing it forth so that it seemed they were doing it just because they could. And to that I say: Ick. I am not a fan.

Perhaps at another time and in another blog post or two I may explore this at more length:  Why this happens; what elements or circumstances or contexts may make it more appropriate or less appropriate; why one might care; etc.

And in non-slam storytelling, there are certainly times that swearing is part of a given story, and there is more freedom and inclination for this among those storytellers and storytelling events that are intentionally for adult audiences, of course – and lots could be explored there.

But for this short “X” entry in the A-Z Daily Blog Challenge, I’ll just make the observation (with the one judgment statement in point number 5, above) that it appears significantly more prevalent a part of slam storytelling.

If you’ve been to story slams, what has your observation of use of profanity been?  And what is your opinion of it?

Thanks for reading – Pam

Comments

11 responses to “X-Rated Language at Story Slams”

  1. Randy Faro Avatar
    Randy Faro

    To begin with, what is or isn’t profane is a value judgment, much like “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” Indeed, there are times and instances when “doggone it” just doesn’t cut it and a hearty uncouth expression provides relief or appropriate emphasis. My issue is with a) folks who can’t say two sentences without including a body part, bodily function, or waste material. Linguistic overkill, specifically regarding profanity, is a quick way to detract, sometimes drastically, from the intended message.

    That said, I tend to agree with Kimball in general: “Profanity is the effort of a feeble brain to express itself forcibly.”
    ― Spencer W. Kimball

    In conclusion (maybe not appropriate here, but here goes anyway) is a poem I wrote eons ago, the last line of which seems to apply.

    I am a grown up
    I can
    tie my shoes by myself
    count to one hundred
    by ones
    go to bed and get up when I please
    and even
    open doors for myself
    It is sanctioned for me to
    drive
    drink and smoke
    watch all the movies
    fight wars
    and love
    In fact
    I swear
    I am an adult

    1. Pam Faro Avatar
      Pam Faro

      I pretty much agree with you, Randy – there are times when it’s highly appropriate, as well as plenty of times when it isn’t! Thanks for including the poem! 🙂

  2. Robin Bady Avatar

    Hey Pam, I am looking forward to hanging out with you more, profanity or not!

    When I was growing up, I did not even know curse words! My parents were against them, they just did not use them, nor did my friends, around me. It was college and then my street theater life afterwards that introduced me to the beauty of feebly being forceful (as Kimble says).

    That was my 20’s, and my early 30’s. Not married, immersed in downtown theater and experiments, the words seemed powerful and useful in gaining a presence I did not feel I had.

    Most of the participants in these slams are young, or new to story. I can only guess that the same “youth rule” applies.

    Actually, when now I find I am cursing a lot, I stop to check myself to figure out what is wrong! It has become a signal of sorts, of feeling the need to express when I feel expression-limited or stuck.

    I am pretty tolerant of others in this regard. I chalk it up to youth or inexperience or an inability to find the right words or enough courage to see the story through. That of course includes me!

    What do you think?

    1. Pam Faro Avatar
      Pam Faro

      I really appreciate your comments here, Robin – Good insights!! Thanks!

  3. Sean Buvala Avatar

    Awww, now we ended up with how “feeble” brains swear. Please. I’m neither feeble, uneducated, infirm or hindered…and swear generously…like most pastors and nuns I have staffed with. I, of course, have not been on staff with President Kimball. I am surrounded in my life by a pantheon of smart, functional contributing members of society that have mastered the art of the swear. The only thing feeble is the quote itself, methinks. Frankly, I generally have trepidation regarding adults who can’t move to the bawdy easily. One Man’s linguistic overkill is another’s artful seasoning, save the for the prejudice palate of that anonymous One Man. .

    1. Pam Faro Avatar
      Pam Faro

      Overkill vs. seasoning (artful or otherwise)…I think that is core to looking at it all. And while I know you (and plenty of others) are not feeble, uneducated, etc., Sean, I do think that Kimball’s statement/quote IS the truth for plenty of people plenty of the time. “Mastering the art of the swear,” as you put it, is vastly different from profanity spewing out of a person’s/speaker’s/storyteller’s mouth every other word (a phrase which is itself overkill…but, sometimes, just barely!). The times I’ve witnessed that at the few story slams I’ve been to I have not been favorably impressed…! Thanks for commenting here.

  4. Megan Hicks Avatar

    I was going to comment, but Sean and Robin said what I had to say better than I could have said it…maybe because decades of salty language have rendered me feeble-minded.

    1. Pam Faro Avatar
      Pam Faro

      Ha! 🙂

  5. Jeri Burns Avatar

    And now from left field… or maybe not – internet culture is thick with f bombs and other colorful means of expression. Just watch many Youtube channels… As mom to a teen, I hear him speak, I hear his choice in stand up comedians, his youtube faves – there is a strong cultural-linguistinc tendency to use profanity in all those venues – and stand up comics are not 21 only. So maybe, just maybe, part of the public slam style has something to do with the cultural style of speech – but then of course Robin can shoot a hole in this theory because she spoke like a holy terror as young-un. Maybe it is just is that way among young folk, to like to sprinkle sentences heartily with spice (says one who has always used it in certain contexts except for 13 years of childrearing, lol). But Sean (I think) mentioned the artful use of spice – and I hope I am artful about it 🙂

    1. Pam Faro Avatar
      Pam Faro

      Artful is good! [Number 5 in the list above is not artful.] Thanks for your comment, Jeri.

  6. Tim Ereneta (@tereneta) Avatar

    In my limited experience with slams, the proportion of profanity increases directly in proportion to the availability of alcohol at the event. Not necessarily because of the chemical inhibitions, but because its presence signals a change in social norms.

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